Category Archives: Daily Grin

Making Some Moves

Change is in the air! Oscar, the Wonder Cat, is improving daily. We can tell by the volume of his meeows how he is feeling. Based upon his 5:00 AM lung power today, we say he is well on his way to a full recovery.

New Job
First off, I am starting a new job on Monday. The change won’t be that drastic because my office is in LA and I’m in Boston — I’ll be working from the Cafe in Waltham as per usual. Still, it is a momentous change for me. My last full-time position was in Financial Services while now I am a bona-fide Webby! Hurray! I will be working for a great company that I know well and for whom I have tons of respect, Genex. Undoubtedly this job will affect my day-to-day focus. I still plan to write this blog, but I am not sure how it will fit in with the new schedule.

New home for Grumble ‘n’ Grin
After two months, I have decided to move this blog to my own site. That way, I can have more creative control over the visual aspects. The plan is to migrate some time this week. I have spent the last week looking at WordPress Themes. I had planned to build my own, but now I don’t have as much time for that sort of thing, so I am going to leverage one of the great Premium Themes that are available… just haven’t decided which one yet as there are many to choose from.

And did I mention…
Oscar is feeling better YEAH!

Blogging About Blogging

Yesterday was the two-month anniversary of Grumble ‘n’ Grin – a personal blog about ? – hmmm… I’m not really sure what it’s about. My intention was to write consistently. It was about experiencing what it is like to participate in the blogosphere, to publish ideas that I might normally keep to myself and to see if and how the site received traffic.

How have I fared?
First, let me just say that it is a good idea to set goals that are easy to attain. If I had set a goal of publishing prize-winning material and acquiring thousands of readers, I might be sorely disappointed. But since to be successful I only had to write something on a regular basis (and I get to define what “regular” means), I have been very successful. I have posted consistently – in fact, almost daily. Weekends don’t count because I have noticed very low traffic on Saturday and Sunday. It seems that productivity could in fact be much higher if people were working instead of surfing the net!

What has the experiment showed me to date?

  1. It is FREAKING TIME-CONSUMING to write a blog every day! This is especially true on those days when you just don’t feel passionate about anything or when you have other things that need to get done.
  2. While not having an agenda or focus may be freeing for the writer, it is difficult to build a readership. There are exceptions, of course, like super-star blogger, Heather Armstrong, publisher of Dooce, who writes about her daily life with edgy humor. My conclusion? You need to actually have talent to be successful writing about your life.
  3. Talking to yourself in public is weird. And so is writing a blog which is very similar to talking to yourself in public knowing full well that people could be overhearing the conversation.
  4. Despite numbers 1 through 3, I am going to keep blogging about nothing much — at least for a while longer.

What have I learned about blogs?
During the last couple of months, I have spent some serious time surfing the web – yes, work has been slow and yes, I probably could have been spending my time more productively but it’s still better than last fall when I played Sudoku for hours on end and mostly scored BELOW AVERAGE.

But I digress. Back to the subject of blogging. The most successful blogs seem to fall into a few categories:

  1. News Blogs – with multiple authors, covering everything & anything from politics and celebrities to sports. Examples: Huffington Post & Daily Kos: State of the Nation
  2. Marketing Blogs – people talking about marketing, social media and how to use it. Example:Seth’s Blog & Chris Brogan
  3. Technology Blogs – geared towards technology and gadgets. Examples: Gizmodo & TechCrunch
  4. Community Blogs – topical blogs on which the community creates the content. Examples: Free Travel Blog to Share your Trips TravelPod & icanhascheezburger
  5. Blogs on Blogging – written for the millions of bloggers who want to know how to blog successfully. Examples:Daily Blog Tips & Blog Tips to Help You Make Money Blogging – ProBlogger

There are also successful blogs that are a combination. The most successful one being Boing Boing. I honestly don’t understand the popularity of this blog. I have checked it out a few times mostly because it ranks as one of the most popular blogs but it just does not grab me. As much as I hate to admit it, I may just not be cool enough to get it. Here is how Boing Boing is described on Technorati

Boing Boing is a weblog of cultural curiosities and interesting technologies. It’s the most popular blog in the world, as ranked by Technorati.com, and won the Lifetime Achievement and Best Group Blog awards at the 2006 Bloggies ceremony. – Technorati


So what does all this mean?

There are millions of blogs being written. Like anything else in life, there are a few who are successful (success being defined as attracting a huge readership and generating revenue for the author/owner) and then there are all of the others. My favorites, though, are the blogs that are about making money blogging. That’s how they make money. All the blogger wannabes read their blogs so they make money. It is like any ponzi scheme – first in reap rewards.

Since I began blogging, I have read a lot about what other bloggers say about blogging. The general consensus is that your blog should have focus… mine does not unless you consider personal viewpoints on a hodge-podge of subjects to be a FOCUS. Somehow I don’t think that’s what they are talking about.

Regardless of it all, I am going to keep blogging about WHATEVER. I may even publish on my own site so that I can play with the layouts more. I will also keep creating my own definition of success; one that is easily attainable. As many of my fellow senior managers used to say, “Redefine Success”. That’s a sure formula for publishing a successful blog.

Almost Daily Photo – Leaves, Lots of Leaves

Autumn Leaves & The Sweet Prius

Autumn Leaves & The Sweet Prius


I took this photo right before Michael and I raked, blew and bagged leaves for a couple of hours. That was Tuesday. Now it’s Saturday and we already have twice as many leaves on the ground. Unfortunately, I can’t bend over or move my right arm. I have also lost the use of my legs.

Here’s me going up the stairs yesterday: “Ouch, ouch, ouch, owowowowow.”

Here’s Michael after listening to me go up the stairs: “What the hell’s wrong with you?” I know, very compassionate.

You might think that these indications of infirmity would motivate me to get back on some sort of exercise regimen?

No, not so much.

The leaves look lovely. We can just let them be. If I don’t do anything too strenuous, I can keep believing that REALLY, I’M IN AWESOME SHAPE!

Denial is the best.

Massachusetts Politics

Leaders Meet Here?

State House - Leaders Meet Here?

Here in Massachusetts we’re not sure what is going on with our local leaders. We have heard very little about governor Deval Patrick after his bid to open MA up to casinos went down in defeat- except that he was in New York promoting his book and recently campaigning for Barack Obama in Miami. Continue reading

Politics & The Media

Election day is this week, FINALLY! The presidential election has been going on FOREVER or at least it seems that way. What will the pundits talk about when it’s over?

The media will come up with all sorts of nonsense and speculation: Continue reading

Daily Photo – Halloween

Dead People are Fun

Dead People are Fun

We took Bridgette to the Mt Auburn Cemetery. This may seem like a strange destination for a walk, but it is a beautifully landscaped and historic destination. Bridgette just thought it was a large playground and that headstones are a different form of jungle gym. Continue reading

Daily Photo – Fall Cleanup

Little Miss Trouble

Cap Says: Little Miss Trouble

My 7-year-old niece, Bella, stopped by with her Dad and sister. She decided to help rake some leaves, then figured out that it was more fun to run around with the rake and swing it at her younger sister.
We quickly put a stop to the rake as weapon direction.

Bella: “I’m just keeping her away from me.” Continue reading

Daily Photo – Puppy Love

Doggy Love

Doggy Love

We are puppy-sitting again this weekend — good thing because she get’s me off my ass and out roller blading. If not for Sunny, I’d probably be sitting in front of my computer all day. I’ve been asking Michael every half-hour, “When are we getting the puppy?” It must be love.

Daily Photo – Chocolate

The best chocolate bars ever!

The best chocolate bars ever!


Ed Fox makes the best chocolate bars I’ve ever tasted — and I’ve tasted quite a few. I spent the afternoon yesterday shooting pictures for his company, Zorro Chocolates. The whole time I was salivating like one of those big slobbery dogs.

Daily Photo – Pooped Puppy

Just catching a few winks

Just catching a few winks


We puppy-sat again this past weekend. Our strategy was to wear Sunny out so that she would be calm and relaxed in the house — no destruction to shoes or anything else left on the floor. We took her for runs every day; I rollerbladed and Michael rode his bike. Mission accomplished, except that I was as pooped out as Sunny!